New addition to the family…

Posted November 24, 2009 by Adam
Categories: The Prays

To all of you who may be freaking out, “OMG, she is pregnant!”, or “Oh no, what have they done now?!”  Relax because the new addition is only a CAR!  Yes we have purchased a car…a dinged up car, but then again every car in Egypt is dinged up.  Our dear friends who live here were selling their car and asked if we would like to look at it.  It was honestly a huge blessing from the Father!  Not only are these friends we trust, but they honestly sold it to us for way cheaper than they would have to anyone else.  Through these friends and the car, we will have an opportunity to meet the owner of the dealership who is Coptic, and try to build a relationship with him as we have our car worked on from time to time.  The Father is so good to provide. 

Adam was in heaven after not driving for 6 months.  Literally he had a smile on his face for a whole week!!!

Little story on the new car:  I have ventured out and have begun driving…it is a little scary because of all the traffic and that just takes getting used too.  Well Ashlee and I decided to venture out one Friday morning because traffic is very quiet.  Well I was making a U-turn or as they call them a Lif and this lady hit me and took off my mirror :( !

It was very funny…she drove down the street a little ways, and I follow.  She gets out of her car, and walks around her car, then gets in and drives off…only in Egypt!  We however had some damage to the mirror.  Now it matches the passenger side mirror!  I still have quite a bit of practice to do!

 

Language…it can bring out the worst and best in you!

Posted November 24, 2009 by Adam
Categories: The Prays

As most of you know, we are doing language with a teacher 5 days a weeks for 2 hours.  It may not seem like much, but trust me it IS!  Learning a language is hard and Arabic is in the group of the 4 most difficult languages to learn (this is where you can feel sorry for us!).  Another difficult part to learning language has been setting up our curriculum or setting up what works for us.  The past 5 months have flown by as we have become very familiar with basic words, commands, and names of objects, but as we are in the need to continue to a deeper level, planning our lessons has become more difficult.  Adam and I learn differently too, and that really makes the lesson time with our tutor hard.  I can recall vocab very easy while Adam can quickly understand most conversation and he knows what is going on in  most circumstances.  We make a really good team, however, we both need to deepen our vocab and begin making short sentences.  Last week, was a break through moment however when we were doing our lesson, I am going on a great pace learning our verbs (there are many forms to saying one word, CRAZY) and Adam is beginning to get frustrated.  Well our language helper Thanaa picks up on his frustration and tries to explain some more how we change endings and beginnings of the verb “to go” and how we make also change the sound of the “A” in the word.  Adam was not in the mood to learn that, or rather just frustrated because he doesn’t learn by writing down the word and Thanaa was trying to show him how the word looked.  So then a discussion arises on how frustrated Adam is and he just didn’t know what to do.  Well that threw our language helper into frustration as well and she actually cried because she didn’t know how to help Adam.  SO SAD!  I actually sat there in amazement that my husband caused her to cry (of course no yelling went on).  She was honestly feeling so bad because she didn’t know what else to do.  Adam of course apologized to her and praised her for how much she has helped him and we love having her as our teacher.

So we told her we were going to work on a new game plan this weekend and starting Sunday we will have a new plan!  Well here we are and we do have a new plan (hopefully this will work).  Actually our new team members had access to training in how to learn a foreign language and we brought them over and they went over some of the training with us and Adam and I both had many “Ah-ha” moments and the lightbulbs just kept coming on! 

So as many of you read this, please pray for both of us that:

1) Our minds would be sharp for each lesson.

2) To focus on our set goals.

3) That the language would begin to take root in our minds (miraculously :) …I believe it can happen)

Back in the Saddle Again!

Posted November 19, 2009 by Adam
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….I hope!  My parents just left us after staying with us for 3 weeks and once again it is up to Adam and I to care for all the children on our own…no extra set of hands lying around!  We had a wonderful time with my parents, just being together was so refreshing for me and for my parents. (I think)!  They were a huge blessing to us and we cannot wait for the next visit!

As I said in the title, we are back in the saddle again…w/ language and daily routine.  Our team mates are getting more and more settled and things are winding down again.  I actually cannnot believe this coming week is Thanksgiving…it is so weird how fast time flies.  I have to honestly say it really doesn’t feel like Thanksgiving, but this week I am determined to make it feel “Fall”.  We are going to be making a few decorations, burning fall candles, and yes attempting to make a big feast for 4 families.  It will be fun ( I keep telling myself that! )!

 

New kid on the block!

Posted November 14, 2009 by Adam
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Well Cairo Samuel has found his match…Lucy!  He likes her so much that he makes her scream probably 10 times in an hour!  Both of them are certainly going through an adjustment.  Lucy, making adjustments not only living in Cairo, but also how to get along with Cairo Samuel and 2 other kids.  We have been entertained by these two year olds and we laugh at them often.  Cairo will run by Lucy effortlessly and just barely brush her cheek or arm just enough to bother her and to get her to scream.  Lucy will say about Cairo…”He did not obey his mommy and he is in time out!”  She has also told Caroline to not touch her!  I love it!  Cairo is having to adjust to the fact that he will get into trouble every time Lucy screams!  He is having to realize that girls are delicate :)

Very soon though, I know they will be very good friends!!

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I love the look on both faces!

Classic!

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Someday, maybe inseparable!

A day in the life…

Posted November 7, 2009 by Adam
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My mother has been emailing friends and family in Oklahoma about our adventures here in Cairo, I thoroughly enjoyed this last email and I thought it would make for a great blog post. 

Yes our team mates have finally arrived…it is great to have them here and they are all doing great.

Ok, the new little family moves in.  Everything is cool.  We’re up till about 11:30, Adam till after midnight, making beds, hanging shower curtains, etc.  I get up at 4:00am – Richard is snoring loudly because of his sinus trouble.  I get on the couch.  6:15am, Cohen comes in and gets right on top of me and turns on the TV.  I said, “Cohen do you realize you are on top of your Nana and not the couch?”  He says, “yeah, I’m snuggling”.  Well that’s sweet.  I go back to sleep to the sounds of Disney.  7:15am there’s a soft knock on the door.  Cohen jumps up to answer.  There stands the Osborns, fully dressed and ready to begin the day.  They woke up at 4:00am wide awake.  Showered, emptied tubs and needed to relax on some real furniture. All they have are some plastic outdoor chairs and no TV yet.  So they come in and I rise from the couch blinking my eyes, making small talk till I can excuse myself and go get descent.

 11:00am, a carpenter and their language teacher come to talk about Kenny and Ashley’s kitchen cabinets.  This meeting goes on till about 1:00.  I don’t know why it took 2 hours.  Meanwhile we’re taking care of everyday things and kids.  

Adam, Kenny and Matt go to by cable and I don’t know what all to try to hook them up on internet.  Successful!.

 In the hall some men are trying to replace the lights (those long tube things).  We hear a huge crash.  Look out and the boys who do Liz’s ironing come with bags of ironed clothes.  The bags have knocked over a few bulbs. They are yelling at Liz and waving their arms.  She yells back in arabic something about what do you want me to do about it, sorry!!  Cairo is peeking out from around his mom yelling too.  I’m just shaking my head.  

Liz won’t let me clean in the kitchen.  Her housekeeper is coming around three and will take care of it.  I say, “no problem, I don’t mind doing some stuff”.  She won’t hear of it, says she is paying him 80 pounds to do it. Well come 4:00 no Billeno.  I say ok I’m going in.  The light won’t turn on! And there is no window.  Very dark in there.  Richard tries to fix it.  Not successful.  Hopefully the light will come on soon.  Meanwhile messy kitchen.

 Adam says to be ready by 5:30 to go to the mall.  We’re taking the Osborns to buy some stuff at Spinney’s and have some dinner.  We get ready. Doorbell rings and there is Cairo’s pre-school teacher and her daughter. She asked Liz to meet with her from time to time and help her with her English.  Well, she is wanting to meet us.  So we sit down and with quite a language barrier we visit.  They are sweet and she wants to make us an egyptian meal while we are here.

 Finally at 6:30 they leave and we set out for the mall.  Liz says she wants to drive the girls and Adam and all the guys go in a taxi.  So here we go, Liz driving in this horrific traffic all the while talking to Adam on the phone about when to turn etc.  We come to the first parking garage and it is closed so we have to keep driving.  Bumper to bumper we inch our way to the next garage.  Cars and people are everywhere.  Liz said, “man, everyone and his dog is out tonight!”  We finally get parked.  It’s after 7:00. We join the guys in Fudruckers.  They’ve been there some time, having been dropped off by the taxi.  We slump in our seats but here you actually sit down and they wait on you.  Finally at 8:30 we’ve had our hamburgers and chicken fingers, free ice cream for the kids, and we decide to let the Osborns go to Spinney’s on their own and take a taxi home, so we can put our cranky kids in the bed.  I thought it seemed a little cruel to just leave the sweet family standing all alone out in front of the walmart on steriods but Adam assured me it was good for them.

 We make our way to our parked car, Liz decides once again she wants to drive home.  I protest slightly.  She says, “Mom, I’ve got to learn”.  She, Adam, Cohen in the front.  Me, Richard, Caroline, and Cairo in the back.  We’re dodging traffic and people.  The kids start whining.  Caroline drops everything given to her.  We’re in there so tight no one can bend over to pick it up.  She is wailing.  Cairo is saying, “my water, my water!”  There is no water.  Cohen is singing his ABC’s.  Then Liz begins to sing God is So Good.  We pass our turn and get lost.  The above mentioned keeps going on and on.  Finally we get back on our street.  It is bumper to bumper traffic and we are trying to find a place to park.  The above mentioned is still going on.  Then we hear women squealling and clicking their tongues.  Horns start a rymthic honking.  Traffic stops altogether.  It’s a wedding processional.  The above mentioned is still going on.  We finally park.  Go upstairs.  And the little ones are sound to sleep in their beds.  All that for some chicken fingers!!!!

 By the way, the Osborns did make it home safe and sound but not with everything they wanted.  They couldn’t fight the crowds any longer.  Also, when I came in I checked the kitchen light.  It works.  But I’m too tired to wash dishes.  But Liz is still singing God is So Good!

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November 1st…really?

Posted November 2, 2009 by Adam
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I cannot believe it is November!  It has not felt like fall here yet at all.  No pumpkins, no red, yellow, or orange trees, no mums, no scare crows, or hay bales on balconies, and no Halloween decorations.  Even the weather has been too warm to feel like fall until today!  This morning we woke up to a 59 degree cool, crisp morning!  I loved it!  We look forward to more mornings like this!  And I think this month I am going to attempt to make my home look more fallish by making some Thanksgiving Day decorations with the kiddos! 

We have been enjoying my parents.  They arrived last Tuesday and are both doing extremely well.  I think they are just about to get caught up on jet lag and are adjusting to our schedule.  The kids really love Nana and Grandad being here.  When Cairo prays at night he thanks God for his Nana and Grandad and that they are “in his home, forever!”  Cohen loves snuggling up close to his Nana and plays computer games with her.  Caroline has warmed up to them too. When they first arrived, she would just look and study their faces and voices!  She of course loves them holding her, what better protection from her brothers!

Adam has been taking dad on many errands getting ready for our team-mates coming this Thursday! (We are sooo excited)  And I too have taken mom to my many stops that I frequent throughout the week.  The other day we went to a kitchen store for wooden spoons, then to my baking store where I picked up some flour and butter, then to a small market to get noodles, and then to my Ba-el where I get my eggs and other small items.  I call it my Ba-el (it is like a convenient store) because they come by my home to see if I need anything.  One of the major benefits of living here in Cairo…delivery! 

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Daily Walks

Posted October 21, 2009 by Adam
Categories: The Prays

Running errands involves a lot of walking, which is not a problem.  I actually prefer walking rather than riding in the taxis.  Here are some pics of this part of our daily life!  In one picture Adam looks really tall, and obviously I know he is tall, but I guess everyone around him was really short, or it was just how I took the picture.  There are tall Egyptians, just an FYI.

This is our street sign, we live on Cleopatra.

This is our street sign, we live on Cleopatra.

View of our building from the street corner.

View of our building from the street corner.

We get stopped often because of Caroline....she is looking at this girl and thinking, "you are not taking my toy!"

We get stopped often because of Caroline....she is looking at this girl and thinking, "you are not taking my toy!"

The girl is sooo sweet, and Caroline is staring her down!

The girl is sooo sweet, and Caroline is staring her down!

Walking to our frame shop.

Walking to our frame shop.

I love this picture, even though her face isn't shown, I love the way it captures how she just hangs out in her stroller hanging on to her giraffe!

I love this picture, even though her face isn't shown, I love the way it captures how she just hangs out in her stroller hanging on to her giraffe!

Sweet Caroline

Posted October 21, 2009 by Adam
Categories: The Prays

Here are some pics of how big she has gotten, and she is sooo sweet.  She smiles most of the time, and is so sweet to everyone who meets here.  She loves to make us laugh!

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She loves to get in this basket.

She loves to get in this basket.

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Grandma San, Top Chef

Posted October 21, 2009 by Adam
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As I said in an earlier post, Grandma San (aka, Adam’s mom) came for a visit for a/b 8 days.  We loved having her here.  She was so fun to watch as she explored the culture we live in.  Seriously after 3 days of being here she would walk to our closest supermarket by herself or with Cohen, or just go out exploring and taking pictures.  Sometimes I wish I had some of that courage to just get out and explore.  I tend to be a homebody though!  She also endured our family and the chaos that having 3 children under the age of 5 brings!  Many times while we were eating, we all would just look at each other and laugh at Cairo getting in and out of his seat, knocking down glasses of water, Cohen talking 90 to nothing, and Caroline yelling at me for not feeding her fast enough!  So much for quiet dinner conversations!  We wouldn’t change anything for a minute because I know all too soon I will miss these days! 

As the title says, she was the top chef according to all of us including Cohen!  She cooked most of our meals for us to give the parents a break!  She also came bearing wonderful gifts especially a couple of t-shirts that the boys adore.  My favorite gift was my cereal bowls and I’m gonna have to say cheetohs!  It was wonderful to taste the cheesiness of cheetohs!!!

Wearing his new Ben 10 shirt and holding up a new Star Wars shirt!

Wearing his new Ben 10 shirt and holding up a new Star Wars shirt!

Excited a/b his new Ben 10 shirt along with a Cars shirt!

Excited a/b his new Ben 10 shirt along with a Cars shirt!

Grandma San and her boys!

Grandma San and her boys!

Grandma San, thanks for coming and making wonderful memories with our kids!  We were so happy you came and appreciate all that you did for us!  We love you!

Hooray for internet!

Posted October 21, 2009 by Adam
Categories: The Prays

I am so relieved to have consecutive usage of our internet for now!  Sharing a USB modem stick (or whatever the little thing was that gave us our temporary internet) was not fun! Adam had to use it most of the time for work!  But for now we are back on!!!  I wish I could tell you the problem, but language and also language of computers are huge barriers for me.  It wasn’t our problem but it was the company we use.  Something about a data issue at the Central.  

We have been doing really good.  This week and last week we were back to our normal schedule of language and I say back to normal because 3 weeks ago, Adam’s mom came for a visit as well as our language helper moved apartments.  So once again things are settled for now. 

Our kids have been great!  Cohen is back in the routine of school and loving every minute of it!  Cairo is doing well his school too.  He is really picking up on Arabic.  Our language helper will speak to him in Arabic and he answers in English or points to what she is talking about.  He is also struggling with his asthma as the air quality here has been exceptionally bad.  Some of our Egyptian friends say October is the worst month for this.  We have taken him to the doctor and are going to try some medications to help him.  Caroline is growing like a weed.  She is becoming more and more vocal and we are really starting to see her personality come out.  She is very playful and loves to make us laugh.  She is strong too (she kind of has to be) beginning to take steps by herself!  I can’t believe how fast time flies.